The last few weeks, I’ve found that I’m one step closer to TWO different possibilities I’ve been pursuing. I never intended for both of these things to happen at the same time, it isn’t how I would plan or organize things, but that’s how it seems to be lining up.
I COULD choose to be anxious and worry about what I will do if these two possibilities do indeed become a reality at the same time, and there are times when I allow myself to think a little bit about how that could possibly be made to work. But the majority of the time, I remind myself that I don’t need to spend a lot of time worrying about something that might not even happen. Honestly, I could spend a lot of time feeling anxious, losing sleep, etc about what I would do and how hard it might be. But for what? There’s a strong possibility that both of these things won’t end up happening at the same time, and all that worry and fretting would have been completely in vain.
We don’t need to spend our time and energy worrying about what MIGHT happen. We don’t. That seems hard, especially if you’re like me and come from a long line of worriers, but we DON’T have to live our lives that way.
We can decide that we will worry about figuring things out when those things actually become a part of our reality instead of only existing as a possibility in our minds.